Like all things in life, everything had its pros and it's cons. When it's comes to deciding on whether or not to join a dating website it's always good to get to the root of the reason why you want to join. But blogger, isn't it obvious why I want to join? To get dates, duh! Well for most people the reasons go a little deeper than that whether they want to admit or not.
Reason #1
Not enough dating experience.
This, young grasshoppers, was my reason. I, like a dumbass, got married at 20. Yes, stupid I know, you don't have to rub it in. I married my first real boyfriend and wasted my formative flirting learning years. So after four years of being married, I was completely clueless on how to date and how to flirt. This is how I got sucked into the black abyss of online dating.
Reason #2
I want to find my soul mate.
I simply loathe this reason. People who feel this way normally join eharmoney. I'm not saying this is the wrong reason to join, just be a little realistic. Most people joining, mainly guys, join to find desperate people who will put out. Thus, bringing us to our final reason
Reason #3
To get booty
You'll find that 75% of people on these sites just want sex. Which quite frankly, I wish they would stay on Craig's list for that bullshit. Let's face it there are a lot of desperate lonely people on these sites that are looking for love. It's unfortunate that dating sites get polluted by these douches that promise the moon and the stars and all they want is nookie.
So what's my lesson for this blog post. Be honest with yourself on why you want to join and go into it with eyes wide open. Don't be naive in thinking that is going to different because you paid for your subscription. Because if people are still willing to pay for porn when there's loads out there for free, why wouldn't they pay a dating website to get laid?
Reason #1
Not enough dating experience.
This, young grasshoppers, was my reason. I, like a dumbass, got married at 20. Yes, stupid I know, you don't have to rub it in. I married my first real boyfriend and wasted my formative flirting learning years. So after four years of being married, I was completely clueless on how to date and how to flirt. This is how I got sucked into the black abyss of online dating.
Reason #2
I want to find my soul mate.
I simply loathe this reason. People who feel this way normally join eharmoney. I'm not saying this is the wrong reason to join, just be a little realistic. Most people joining, mainly guys, join to find desperate people who will put out. Thus, bringing us to our final reason
Reason #3
To get booty
You'll find that 75% of people on these sites just want sex. Which quite frankly, I wish they would stay on Craig's list for that bullshit. Let's face it there are a lot of desperate lonely people on these sites that are looking for love. It's unfortunate that dating sites get polluted by these douches that promise the moon and the stars and all they want is nookie.
So what's my lesson for this blog post. Be honest with yourself on why you want to join and go into it with eyes wide open. Don't be naive in thinking that is going to different because you paid for your subscription. Because if people are still willing to pay for porn when there's loads out there for free, why wouldn't they pay a dating website to get laid?
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